Is Your "War Paint" Scaring Men Away?
Take off the war paint and put on a smile!
If you haven't yet read the interview with Ms. X, you may be in for quite a surprise! What she says is women who "put on the paint" look hard and turn men off!
She should know -- she's one of those women who always has men around her -- and she claims it's because she's a happy person -- not an easy girl!
In fact Ms. X, (not her real name) also made another startling observation:
Most men are attracted to women who are comfortable with themselves -- because they make men feel comfortable too.
Are we getting into some common sense here ladies?
Piling it on -- from make-up to dress up -- may draw more initial attention but a lot less follow through! They'll look at you as you walk by but you may be sitting at that table all by yourself for the rest of the night -- Why?
One word -- Unapproachable!
Being "dressed to the nines" may actually send the wrong message to a lot of men.
...Like you're "untouchable" or too special for the likes of him. You may look great in the mirror but out there in the real world, YOU MAY NOT BE VERY RELATABLE.
If you keep batting zero, in a ballpark full of players, it may be time to change your uniform!
Take a look at the most popular women.
You'll see they're a little more casual in their dress -- more real with their make-up and have a genuine smile on their face.
Of course they're happy -- they've got all the men!
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