The Myth About Sex After Marriage
When my husband Bob and I were dating, he said something to me about sex after marriage I had never heard before:
"Sex is going to be better than you ever imagined -- after we're married!"
What? I'd never heard anything like that before! All the married women I talked to, the magazine articles I read, the movies, stories -- I was constantly being told that sex after marriage becomes routine, less satisfying or DISAPEARS ALL TOGETHER! Never again to be as exciting as when I was a single woman.
Now here was Bob, telling me, that as a single woman, no matter how great I thought sex had been, it's not going to come close to the experience I was going to have after I got married!
I was intrigued by what he said -- I hoped he was right.
Okay almost nine years into our marriage and it's like I was a virgin before I got married!
I'm not kidding -- I was an experienced single woman -- the thought of amazing sex during marriage sounded like a beautiful fantasy.
OMG! I'm here to tell you I've gone to "places" I never imagined existed! Nothing I ever experienced as a single woman even comes close!
So why the common myth about sex and marriage?
Maybe, it's because you have a lot of immature people getting married. You know what I mean, boys and girls in men and women's bodies! They never get past some kind of immature internal barrier which allows them to become fully unleashed sexually.
The boy doesn't fully embrace his manhood and the woman doesn't fully embrace her womanhood -- for whatever reason they never feel safe enough with each other for that to happen. So they hit a "glass ceiling" -- they know there's more but can't get there.
I think amazing sex in marriage has to do with a very normal, natural relationship between a man and a women -- something many married couples never achieve.
Which is too bad because there would be a lot less divorce if men and women could find this deeply rewarding natural connection with each other.
If you're a single woman and you fall in love with the right man...
Marriage is going to unleash you in ways you never imagined!
Remember Madonna's song "Like a Virgin" -- That's how you're going to feel about your sexual experience before you got married.
Nothing comes close to the feeling of safety marriage brings that let's you fully explore the delicious delights of the natural woman inside you -- with the natural man you married!
-Gwen Baran
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