Interview With Mr. X
A divorced and single man in his forties.
He's a successful businessman and a pillar of his community -- a very eligible bachelor -- You're going to be surprised at what he has to say about single women.
In order to get his "unedited" point of view we had to guarantee Mr. X, would remain anonymous. Mr. X, is serious about getting married again. Finding the woman of his dreams is the most important thing in his life.
RT: What was your first reaction to finding yourself in the dating game again?
Mr. X: Well, now I'm in my forties. I'm not a teenager or young adult. I am astonished at how most single women I meet still seem like they're stuck in high school or college. I'm talking about maturity here and women that are close to my own age -- this has really been a surprise -- and really disappointing at the same time.
RT: Disappointing?
Mr X: I had no idea so many single women were still girls! They act immature or play silly games -- someone gave them really bad advice about how to act with a man. It's a real put-off and waste of my time. I know other men who are single and have the same lament -- Where have all the real women gone?
RT: Where have all the women gone?
Mr. X: You can't talk to a "girl", much less trust her with your feelings. The last thing a girl wants is to get serious with a man -- she can't handle the intensity -- it's like we're too real or something.
The men I know are ready to give all of themselves to the woman of their dreams. We talk about in a very frank manner when we're together -- obviously not something we would have talked about when were immature and afraid to talk about what was important. We're not talking about basketball or football -- we're talking about life.
RT: So you think a lot of single women look at dating as some kind of game?
Mr. X: Exactly! Here I am, finally embraced what it is to really be a man. I've finally learned to "see" with the eyes of my heart and there's all these silly girls in women's bodies blocking my view! It's like the women are being kept hidden away on purpose!
RT: I wasn't expecting this interview to go in this direction. I wanted to ask you about what made you interested in a woman...
Mr. X: Isn't that what I've been talking about? I'd love to have a conversation with a single woman about important things -- who doesn't react like some 16 year old child -- you know making silly remarks or changing the subject because they don't feel comfortable with "adult subjects" -- and I don't mean talking about sex either.
RT: So what does get your attention?
Mr. X: Every once in a while you meet a special woman. You can see right into her eyes -- they invite you in -- there's a calm confidence that is so -- I don't know, sexy and safe and I just want to talk to her... She's comfortable with herself -- that's it -- she acts so different than the typical single woman who makes you jump through some kind of imaginary hoops -- I don't want that -- don't have the time to waste on games.
RT: This is a woman who looks a certain way?
Mr. X: Yeah, and it doesn't have a lot to do with her body type or her age. I've discussed this with my friends and we've come to the conclusion that it's a woman who has gotten her "girl" out of the way -- I don't know how else to describe it. There's an incredible inner beauty that makes me want to be with her... I mean I really enjoy her company and she feels so much sexier than those immature women.
It's all about how she carries herself -- you know, her demeanor - - her vibe -- it makes me feel good to be around her.
RT: You're saying it's not so much the way she looks or dresses?
Mr. X: If women only understood this, there would be a lot less of them still single!
A man is looking for a partner, a confidant and a lover. A woman who is centered and has embraced her true self radiates this inner beauty. It's breath taking! -- and it's most powerful in woman who are unique in their appearance.
Their physical appearance is a by-product of that special inner something. I just wish there were more of those kinds of women and fewer immature girls in women's bodies!
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