Date A Married Man? -- Buyer Beware!
Should I date a married man?
Let me answer that with a question. If you were his wife -- HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?
If a man is still married, dating another woman is cheating.
There is no excuse for his betrayal, no matter what he may be telling you.
It comes down to personal integrity. No matter how bad he tells you his marriage is or how unhappy he may be -- he's still married. He still has a solemn commitment in place.
Is that the kind of sacred trust you're looking for with a man?
Do you think you could have it with him?
What makes you think that he wouldn't do the very same thing to you one day?
A married man should be off limits for a single woman.
Even one who is "separated".
Until the divorce is finalized, there is always the possibility that he could find his way back to his estranged wife. You would just be the "other woman", the home wrecker -- the Jezebel.
It's even worse if he has children...
Until that situation is well behind him time wise -- divorced for a couple of years or more -- you're run the risk becoming his "rebound" relationship.
The rebound relationship is the first serious relationship a man (or a woman) has after the breakup of a serious relationship or marriage.
It's like playing the lottery.
There's a lot wishful thinking on your part.
If you enter into a relationship with a man who is on the rebound -- you may become a distraction that delays his healing.
While setting yourself up for a broken heart.
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