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Thinking About Living Together?

Should you move in and live together before you get married?

We don't think so and here's why...

What I'm about to tell you isn't old fashioned or out of step with the times:

There is a natural process of "letting go" and becoming familiar with each other. It's a normal part of two people learning to live together. You are going to experience the best and the worst with each other in a relatively short period of time.

Immature people don't handle this real life experience very well.

It takes a deep underlying commitment -- that you're not going to abandon each other -- that a marriage provides -- something "living together" will never do.

It's too easy to walk away

You will never know another person as deeply as when you are married because you have made a commitment that is not casual or superficial. It is the kind of commitment which allows you to feel safe building a life together.

When you live together you are always walking a tight rope -- always on eggshells.

Living together never let's you really "see" each other. You are still experiencing a "best behavior" scenario -- which is not a true picture of you or him.

It's kind of like an extended visit.

There's a "don't make waves" mind set. This fear of revealing your true self to each other -- something you feel much safer doing in a committed marriage -- can lead to the feeling that something is missing in your relationship.

Giving yourself completely to another person should be the most serious decision you make in your life. It must be mutual and without hesitation.

Living together should be living your life together.

Don't cheat yourself out of the full experience of trust that comes from making a formal commitment to spend the rest of your life with the man of your dreams.

You can't take a test drive with true love.

True love, by it's very nature means no hesitation and complete trust.

Marriage is how you tell the world: "My life and my commitment to the man I love is real -- and I take the connection I have with this man as the cornerstone and foundation of the rest of my life".

You can't do that with a sleep-over -- no matter how many weeks or months it lasts.

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